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-Passionately post-graduate in gender studies .. gender non confirmist .strong belief -life is all about choices ,it cant be because of gender -construction ..Gender researcher -working with govt. nGO. corporate and funding organisations .
---" Adiem-home stay ' is a beleif that green living is not only sharing eco-awareness and eco-resources but also going beyond to inspire and promote and encourage others on green path . A greem homestay with green attitude .
-Adiem farms --born with a very strong change from 'consumption to production '( Even it is on a small scale )
A platform for experiments in organic farming waste re-cycling and water conserving to water conseroing ...open for tourist guests .

At personal note --
smart , intelligent hardworking , passionate independent very passionate about relationships .
Biological and Adopted mom who is more interested in parenting and having a family than mere passing genes.
Home schooled children's mom with a beleif that school cant teach children there should be ownership of learning ...'for evaluation;
In a alternative life style with changing roles of home-making n bread -earning professions with partner .


What is gender ???

                                              'WHAT   is  GENDER "

MEN AND WOMEN are different biologically  They play diffrent  roles into reproducing the human species . Building on their bilogical  differences  every  culture has evolved  roles , traits and forms of behaviour which are thought to be typical of men and women .Some forms of behaviour are thought to be feminine , and others masculine . Similarly some task considered to be suitable for men and some for women .
These roles and  traits  are not necesseralily  handed down to men and women by their biology .Quite a lot of it is the creation of  society Gender is part biology and part society (Social construction)  Men and women are therefore  playing out two sets of realities .

1)     There biolology , the way they are born ,whether its man or woman

2)     The baggage given to them by society –What society thinks they ought to be as men or woman .

 For example , the fact of bearing child  sets women biologically apart from men .Culture has used this biological fact to assign primacy to women’s role as mother and wife and by extension her other roles in the domestic sphere,


These messages of men and women –what they are and they should be –are deeply rooted in the minds of individuals and collectivity that we call society .
Symbols, Myths, legends ,language, proverbs. Folklore and rituals are other powerful agents that condition  our mind.

Finally ,the routine performance of different tasks itself results in men and women developing different personal qualities , Although men and women  many similarities the  ‘social construction had over emphasis the
   Differences .

And what is horrible about these differences are not treat men and women differently , but it also ranks them their work as having 
more and less value,


                                      ex' What do you do whole day  at home ??? 

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