Happy Sex Life- Happy Relationships!

What are the requirements for a happy relationship? Kind and understanding partner, a healthy and compatible relationship, supportive partner and a modern-day understanding and a progressive family. Think again, is that it? Well, not really. Because we are missing out on one very important aspect of a healthy relationship- A fulfilling and happy sex life! 

In today’s times, a large number of couples go through a rough to no sex life. Maybe due to personal or emotional issues between the partners, or stressful work life, or due to many other issues which can ruin your love life. Identifying and fixing the issues with their sex lives would not only make that aspect of their lives prosperous, but would also help them fix other problems. It is important to have healthy dialog and a strong emotional understanding to have a great love life. Having said that, sex can never be an answer to gender discrimination and patriarchy, as any sexual relationship based on such value systems and beliefs will never be a healthy one. You can never take any gender for granted in such cases. Whereas a reliable, gratifying and a beautiful sex life can help you to not get taken for granted. 

Sex should be treated as a team activity (A team of two), as it is not a one way street. Both the partners should be able to pleasure the other for an amazing and climaxing experience. A lot of times men tend to overlook the needs of their partners and only focus on their own. This gives rise to unsatisfying love lives and broken relationships. This same issue can later convert into a cheating partner, or in some cases, physical abuse resulting in rape or assault. Hence it is crucial to ensure that your partner is happy and satisfied. 

If your sexual expectations are communicated and fulfilled, you will have a happy family life as well, since both the partners would be happy with the results and that would help avoid conflicts and disagreements. Another notable point is- after having children, many couples, especially women tend to focus on their upbringing and somewhere sacrifice on their sexual needs. This is a huge disservice to yourself and your partner, and often leads to estranged personal lives between partners. 

Most of the problems faced by couples in their sex lives are because of the difficulties they counter in discussing this subject openly among one another. Our families, our society and everyone around us have made ‘SEX’ a hush-hush and a ’Taboo’ subject, and talking about it apparently makes you an indecent person. This- in a country with the second largest population where most families have 2 or more children. Oh, the irony! Look at sex as what it is- a basic need of an individual, and a must have for a healthy and long-lasting relationship.

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