To my son deek and all his male friends ,My dear son , today I have come to you for help . for last so many years I have been working on gender issues , I have been doing things which was only in my influence , But today I need your help .
Help from friend , from Mother, and most of all from a 'WOMAN'
,I need Help from you deek as friends , as son and most of all as 'MALE' and as a ,BOY'.
Tthough I was your mother , a superwoman for you who is a multitask er , who is super fast and super independent . yes true , if this is true with me , this is also true my friend that i have been always a 'SURVIVOR ' not
'BENEFICIARY like your father .
I HAVE BEEN ALWAYS A SURVIVOR .
Today as 'SURVIVOR' I need your HELP.
I have a request to make dear son .My request is for those situations where I can not enter,
your group of friends .
-Your night out .
-your friends gossip
-your disco the ck .
-your changing room.......
I REQUEST , I request when that when you have a conversation of rape , molestation , abuse and call each other out on degrading behavior and then any of your friends says
" I am not responsible , she wanted it yaar .
Please Please ... Please don't laugh or don't ignore it .
show your disagreement PLEASE .
As a survivor I want allies who just don't protect me from the world , but who work to protect world a place where rape , abuse and molestation are not things i have to fear.. .