Day in and day out when i meet indian married couples around me , in my formal n in my informal sessions also . I find one common thing amongst all couples --"-boreness , suffocation and in the end once the most passionate relationship can feel like their loosing heart. "
Getting stuck in long monotonous routine is not new to everyone , life has become so tough, so competetive , so challenging that proving ourselves have become really tough task . Where men and women both working outside , outside work stress and challenges , commuting kills you really , where men is are working hard to earn money and women in home -making profession . together give best to family and children but in the process they forget that they need to give best to each=other too .
Why we take each-others for granted ?.
Why we take each-others for granted ?.
yes , I want to say all my couples clients and friends that busy shedule ,taking care of kids n falling into routine can be death of our romance , if we are not very careful about our relationship.When things like , job , children , parents and money undoubtly important , its not essential to make time for our own relationships too ??
Giving away a weekend to get away by ourselves or setting datenights for two of us is not something we are expecting from one-another .
Hugs and kisses and affectionate touches have almost lost places in our relationships .
SOME POINTS AND TIPS ( Rituals of love life )
I jotted down for indian couple who take 'Romance and sex not important word and they dont want to work on them by themselves ,
Sex and Romance is base of any happy married life , in my counselling I found 90 % conflicts exista because of poor sexual life between couples .
Some tips for couple to heat relationships .-
2)Express your love by kissing your partner . indian dont accept expessing love this way still try
kiss your partner everyday /
3) NIGHT out a date with your partner atleast once in a month
4)Give your partner surprise flower , chocolate or card expressing your love /
5) call up your partner from office or at work reminding them you love him or her /
6) Flirt with your partner sometime when in store or shopping mall
7) Express your romance by saying 'How sexy and seductive he or she is luking when he /she gets ready
8)D o some change in your life may be cooking together , gardening together and cleaning together and njoy each others company including physical touches
9) place love-notes for each-other if possible
10) take long-walk when possible .
and Keep your body in shape ,work hard for your own fitness , try to look beautiful , let our wardrobes , t-shirts n swaeters from 80s This can be great way to remind your partner that still your romance alive ,
Its not only about attracting our partner , but it is allabout carrying ourselves too .its about we want to take notice of ourselves too .
Again , remember we can not love ourself we can not love others .
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4 comments:
Madhu Mam, You are always have a very good at the issues, no one wants to talk about, in India, Best luck for your work...... Atharva
thnx atharva , v really feel v should be passionate about our life
couldn't agree more!! great work aunty!! :)
I try to follow most of them n believe me they all work...Madhu, I saw you on FB and since then I m just following your post they are all so magnetic Thanks for sharing.
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